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Anxiety stemming from maternal sources

  Anxiety stemming from the maternal body

  It's not hard to discover from Liang Xuan's dreams that he has a psychological complex towards his mother, both yearning and fearful. He dreamed of a passageway and a terrifying, thorny black house. The content of this dream is dark and contradictory. Later, I looked it up and found out that when Liang Xuan was still a fetus, his mother had thoughts of aborting him. Many adults are unaware that even just the thought can be enough to create memories in the fetus, forming a subconscious memory in the womb. This is too subtle to be explained or proven by science, but in fact, this memory does exist. As Liang Xuan grew up, he naturally didn't know about this, but this memory existed in his subconscious. In specific psychological states, dreams can reflect this content. The black house represents his fear of being abandoned by his mother while still a fetus. Therefore, Liang Xuan's lack of security comes from the womb.

  "Mother is the identity that can give people a sense of security, but Liang Xuan's subconscious has lost its sense of security towards his mother, so his dreams are contradictory, which is normal." Ding Si Cheng agreed with her analysis.

  "Liang Xuan's anxiety disorder should have originated in his childhood." Su Ye continued, her tone slightly heavier, "In his dream, he saw a coffin and his younger brother flying away with wings. This is actually a typical 'death of loved ones' dream. We all have dreams like this to some extent, dreaming of the passing of relatives or friends, or dreaming of long-departed loved ones. These dreams hide two meanings: one is the desire to see people we haven't seen in a long time, which is an unconscious wish; and another interpretation is that the dreamer has a desire for the death of their loved ones. Through Liang Xuan's dream analysis, it's not hard to conclude that he belongs to the latter."

  "Although your latter statement may be opposed by the majority, in fact, this theory is established. Liang Xuan must have had such a wish at some point or during his childhood, which is why he would have such a dream." Ding Si Cheng nodded and got up to pour a glass of water for Su Ye, then sat down beside her and analyzed cautiously, "You mentioned in the data that Liang Xuan has a younger brother, and his brother is still alive. So we can naturally analyze Liang Xuan's state during childhood. In fact, everyone has had hostility towards their siblings at some point, this distant relationship comes from childhood and has a certain continuity. Although as we grow older, the affection between siblings deepens, the hostility from childhood still exists in the depths of our hearts, even in our subconscious. Children are absolutely self-centered, they will urgently feel their own needs and go to satisfy them, once there is a competitor, they will be filled with hostility."

  Su Ye took a sip of water, pursed her lips, "As we grow up, our social sense and moral sense can correct our past wrong thoughts. At this time, the self will suppress the true self, but this subconsciousness still exists. Liang Xuan, since he was in his mother's womb, had an insecure feeling. After having a younger brother, his mother's love would inevitably be taken away from him, and it was normal for him to have hostility towards his younger brother in his heart. He dreamed that his younger brother grew wings and flew away, which came from his childhood imagination of the dead. He thought that people flying up to the sky represented death, so he hoped his younger brother would die. Liang Xuan formed this anxiety and unease in his childhood, and as he worked and got married, this psychology not only did not alleviate but intensified. His possessiveness towards his wife was like his childhood possessiveness towards his mother's love, so when he saw his wife getting close to Yan Baiyan, he would feel anxious and uneasy. But Yan Baiyan was a successful businessman, strong in Liang Xuan's eyes, so in his dream, he dreamed that Yan Baiyan and his wife pushed him into the water. As time went on, he truly formed delusional disorder, and most of the movies he liked to watch were violent and compulsive, which also hid his long-held self-protection and violent tendencies, so he ended up killing his wife."

  Ding Sicong flipped through the materials and looked at them for a while, then looked at Su Ye with puzzlement in his eyes. "The video he watched wasn't mentioned in your report, what video?"

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